it just died i think...
after spending almost five years of my life with the same person that i thought would be my life long partner, it just ended.
it hurts big time i know, the only comforting thought about it though is that i was not the one who did the damage, which also quite sucks i guess. heheh!
anyways, enough of the pining, through with that. as a true gentleman (or so i thought) i just let the situation go through. there's no way i can fight what destiny has set. i'm still alive and that is the most wonderful thing i am most thankful of. no ill feelings, it's just part of being an imperfect human being, you get to hurt once in a while, or more often. it's not a new concept, there are a lot of people hurting the world over. and i'm sure that there are far more people whos going through worse situations than i do. and moping? what's the use, everyone must be a fighter, no more sissies.
the only good thing about break-ups is that it toughens you, you must only recognize the positivity it brings you. sure, you love the other human being you spent most of your time adoring, but if it has to end--it has to end. no ifs, no buts, no nothing. ending a relationship can be the most empowering situation a human being can go through. imagine it as a navy S.E.A.L.S. training, after you've recovered you are a whole lot better person than you were before. the only people i know that carry grudges over break-ups are the saddest people i've met. they blame themselves everything that went wrong, and cannot get over it. these people are those who can't soar because they harbor heavier emotional baggages than they can handle. blah!
life is too short to be sad...
the world is unfair so let it be, you can't argue with fate.
just keep on standing because it is the most beautiful gift you can give yourself. cry if you want to, but be quick about it. just let life bring you all the lemons, and make lemonade for the whole world. i believe that we humans must be the bravest survivors in the entire universe, and we all have to continue on surviving the harshest situation life has to offer.
just keep on believing,
keep on living,
and keep on loving,
even if it hurts big time.
after spending almost five years of my life with the same person that i thought would be my life long partner, it just ended.
it hurts big time i know, the only comforting thought about it though is that i was not the one who did the damage, which also quite sucks i guess. heheh!
anyways, enough of the pining, through with that. as a true gentleman (or so i thought) i just let the situation go through. there's no way i can fight what destiny has set. i'm still alive and that is the most wonderful thing i am most thankful of. no ill feelings, it's just part of being an imperfect human being, you get to hurt once in a while, or more often. it's not a new concept, there are a lot of people hurting the world over. and i'm sure that there are far more people whos going through worse situations than i do. and moping? what's the use, everyone must be a fighter, no more sissies.
the only good thing about break-ups is that it toughens you, you must only recognize the positivity it brings you. sure, you love the other human being you spent most of your time adoring, but if it has to end--it has to end. no ifs, no buts, no nothing. ending a relationship can be the most empowering situation a human being can go through. imagine it as a navy S.E.A.L.S. training, after you've recovered you are a whole lot better person than you were before. the only people i know that carry grudges over break-ups are the saddest people i've met. they blame themselves everything that went wrong, and cannot get over it. these people are those who can't soar because they harbor heavier emotional baggages than they can handle. blah!
life is too short to be sad...
the world is unfair so let it be, you can't argue with fate.
just keep on standing because it is the most beautiful gift you can give yourself. cry if you want to, but be quick about it. just let life bring you all the lemons, and make lemonade for the whole world. i believe that we humans must be the bravest survivors in the entire universe, and we all have to continue on surviving the harshest situation life has to offer.
just keep on believing,
keep on living,
and keep on loving,
even if it hurts big time.
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